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Understanding the Issue

And why the in-between matters

The Reality

Many people assume that once a woman leaves a harmful relationship, the worst is behind her. But the truth is more complicated. Leaving often begins a new season of risk and instability that is often unseen by the rest of the world.


This page seeks to offer data, context, and language that help explain what women face on the road to full restoration.



By the Numbers


  • 1 in 4 women experience severe intimate partner violence in their lifetime.
  • 50-60% of women leaving harmful relationships experience post-separation harassment or abuse.
  • 70% of single mothers report being one paycheck away from financial crisis.  
  • Children in remarried households are 7x more likely to be abused in blended homes and 8x more likely to be neglected. 
  • The recovery time for a woman who has endured intimate partner violence (IPV) is twice as long as that of a separated woman with no history of harm.
  • Women with a history of IPV are 2-3x more likely to re-enter abuse without intervention.



The Cost of Freedom

Numbers alone can't capture the full weight of what true freedom costs. Beyond the statistics are lived realities of women facing ongoing control from their ex-partner, gaps in support systems, and the internal toll of trauma. 


When these collide, they create the greatest risk of hopelessness. Without intervention, more than half of these women will end up repeating the cycle of harm and increasing their children's risk of further abuse and neglect.

Post-Separation Fallout

Post-Separation Fallout

Post-Separation Fallout

Freedom doesn't end control. 

Even after a woman leaves, an abusive partner may continue to interfere and intimidate, blocking access to funds, sabotaging parenting, manipulating court orders, stalking, or harassment. Leaving often triggers new forms of coercion designed to pull her back or keep her unstable.

Systems Fallout

Post-Separation Fallout

Post-Separation Fallout

The gaps are real.

Support systems meant to help can become barriers when they require proof of visible harm, prioritize shared parenting over safety, or apply eligibility rules that leave survivors unprotected. Too often, women fall through cracks in legal, financial, and social safety nets.

Internal Fallout

Post-Separation Fallout

Internal Fallout

The trauma lingers inside.

Relational harm leaves deep scars. Survivors often struggle with shame, anxiety, depression, PTSD, and a loss of identity. Many describe living in a fog of hopelessness. Healing requires more than time. It requires a supportive community, practical help, and compassionate support.

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